Can You Make Him Fall In Love?
Imagine if you had the power to influence a man to fall in love with you. If you could ignite attraction with the man you desire and bring him close to you so he can’t get enough of you. Imagine if you could make your man fall in love with you over and over and over as the years go by. You can!
Love has a multitude of facets – there is an emotional and physical attraction, compatibility, affection and commitment. When a man says he has ‘fallen out of love’ often his affection, commitment and compatibility is still there but where he is feeling a difference is in his attraction.
In the beginning of a relationship, it feels so good. The butterflies, missing each other, wanting to spend every second together, the willingness to surprise each other with unexpected gifts, spontaneous outings and secret plans.
All of these things contributed to his emotional attraction to you, but as time goes on couples get comfortable and the variety and adventure stops and the mundane creeps in. When the mundane creeps in he can often feel like something has changed or something is off between the two of you.
The spark has gone and you notice he starts to pull away and you slowly grow apart.
So how do you fix this problem? How do you keep the spark alive and make your man fall in love with you over and over again?
These are two sure fire ways to rekindle the flame in your relationship and bring back that loving feeling:
1. Distance Makes the Heart Grow Fonder
It is really important for both of you to get some space from each other and spend some time on yourselves. Not only will you feel better about yourself, having redirected your relationship energy into yours truly, you will also have a chance to reconnect with friends, pick up old hobbies and regain some of that energy you had at the beginning of the relationship.
It also gives you both a chance to miss each other and realise just how important the other really is to you. Once you have both had a bit of space and a chance to recharge the batteries you will be better able to value the other and inject some of that honeymoon period excitement and spontaneity back into your partnership.
Giving your man the opportunity to miss you is incredibly powerful when it comes to bringing back the passion. When you are apart he will reconnect with himself and before you know it his animal instinct will kick in and he will want to hunt you down for your love and attention.
2. ‘Shake It Up Baby' – add some variety and adventure to your life.
If you feel the spark has fizzled there is nothing like a little unpredictability to get the heart racing.
Life and laziness can get in the way of trying something new or taking a risk but it is the very thing to heat up the romance department and bring back the love from your man.
Doing something for the first time together is something that will easily bring you closer and help you both remember the trust and affection you have for each other.
Confidence is incredibly attractive so why not take the lead and plan despite what you think men love it when women take the lead. You’re a strong successful woman and that is what attracted him to you in the first place. Show him the real you book a getaway or a cooking class or if you’re more daring, skydiving.
One of the great ways to rev the engine is for you both to get excited about something, and that is why something new is such a great idea.
You already know that your man has been both physically and emotionally attracted to you, so you can rest assured that you already have all the ingredients.
To attain the same level of closeness as you once shared all you need to do is take a trip down memory lane and revisit some of the great experience you had together, creating fresh new opportunities to keep you both invigorated and enthusiastic about your time together!
All good relationships take investing in. Just like if you wanted to grow rich red juicy tomato’s you would weed the garden, you would fertilise and water. Providing a healthy environment you reap the rewards of a delicious nutritious salad.
Relationships are the same, fertilise your relationship by letting your man know how special he is to you, add some adventure into your relationship to keep the spark alive and make love happen! Be the envy of your friends.