It’s normal to have some doubts that you’re dating the wrong man, but if you’re experiencing the following issues then perhaps it’s time to rethink your relationship. Time is something you never get back, it is your most valuable resource. Too often I see women wasting precious years with Mr Wrong and missing out on important personal milestones because they are dating the wrong man.
To find long term love with the right man it’s important you look out for alarm bells and take matters into your own hands. Here are 10 signs you are dating the wrong man:
1. You Can’t Seem To Introduce Him To Your Family And Friends
This may be because he himself doesn’t want to or keeps making excuses when you set up a date with your friends or with your family, or this may be because you yourself have this feeling that you don’t want to introduce him to them yet. These two reasons are an early sign that you’re dating the wrong guy. If you can’t introduce him to the people you love, for whatever reason, then the relationship probably won’t last.
2. He Doesn’t Listen To You
Having someone who listens to you is very important in making a relationship work. Having your needs understood, acknowledged and acted upon is essential. If he doesn’t listen to you, then there’s no point in continuing the relationship. Even small things, like telling him about your day, is very important because it makes the relationship stronger.
3. He Wants Your Time 24/7
If you’re dating someone who is too clingy, then you should start thinking about getting out. If you feel that you can’t breathe in the relationship or that he depends on you too much for too many things, then delaying the inevitable would just hurt you both.
4. You Can’t Seem To Show Your Real Self
If you’re dating someone and you have this nagging feeling that you have to act like someone else, then you have to do something. Either start being yourself and see if he stays, or just end it right there. No relationship is worth having to wear a mask.
5. You Don’t Have The Same Interests
This doesn’t mean that he should like everything you like, and vice versa, but you should have at least some of the same interests. If you have absolutely nothing in common, then there is no common ground for you to even start building a relationship from.
6. Spending Time With Him Is Exhausting
If you find yourself emotionally or mentally drained after a date with him, then you may need to think about ending it. If this goes on even after a few dates, then you should already know that being exhausted from spending time with someone is not a good thing in a relationship.
7. You Can’t Have Difficult Conversations With Him
By definition, difficult conversations are not easy, nor enjoyable to go through. But these are things that need to be talked about and addressed. If he doesn’t want to have these conversations with you, then he may not be emotionally ready to be in a long term relationship.
8. He Is Too Self-Centered
If he only thinks about himself and does things that are self-serving but not good for your relationship, then accept the fact that it wouldn’t work. A relationship is about two people working things out together and doing things for each other. If he only focuses on himself, then you should stop dating him.
9. You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough
If he makes you feel like you’re not good enough in any way, then get out fast. We all have our insecurities and you don’t need someone to make you feel even more insecure. Being in a relationship should mean that you are with someone who empowers you, not someone who makes you feel worse.
10. You Can’t See A Future Together
If you can’t even imagine this, then it’s not going to happen. Your future is the very thing that you’re working toward.
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Don’t compromise the rest of your life and end up with someone who isn’t good for you.
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