The Silent Epidemic: How the Medical System Lets Women Down

If you’re a woman who’s ever been told, “It’s all in your head,” when you’re dealing with real, painful symptoms, you’re not alone. If you’ve ever sat in a doctor’s office, trying to explain your pain, only to be brushed off, misdiagnosed, or handed antidepressants instead of real answers, welcome to the frustrating world of women’s healthcare.
It’s 2025, and somehow, women’s health is still treated like an afterthought. Our bodies are often seen as “too complicated” to study, our pain is ignored or downplayed, and our concerns—especially about reproductive health—are pushed aside like they’re no big deal. But here’s the thing: this isn’t just annoying—it’s a huge problem that’s putting lives at risk.
The Proof: Women’s Health Isn’t a Priority
The facts are clear. For years, most medical research has focused on men. Studies are done on men, and the results are just assumed to work for women too, even though our bodies are different. Because of this, tons of women’s health issues get missed, ignored, or treated the wrong way.
- Medical Gaslighting is Real: Studies show that women in pain wait 33% longer in emergency rooms than men. Women’s heart attack symptoms are different from men’s, but because most research is based on men, many women are sent home without proper care—and sometimes, it’s deadly.
- Endometriosis, PCOS, and the Fight for a Diagnosis: Conditions like endometriosis and polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) affect millions of women, but it can take years to get a diagnosis. On average, it takes 7 to 10 years to diagnose endometriosis, and many women are told to “just deal with it” or take painkillers instead of getting real help.
- The Money Problem: Diseases that mostly affect women get way less funding than those that affect men. For example, erectile dysfunction research gets millions of dollars, while endometriosis—which affects 1 in 10 women—gets barely any attention.
Why Are Women Still Fighting for Basic Care?
You’d think in 2025, when women are leading countries, running companies, and breaking barriers everywhere, we’d at least get taken seriously when it comes to our health. But no. The problem is a mix of old-fashioned ideas, bias in the system, and the belief that women’s health just isn’t that important.
From the time we’re born, our bodies are treated like they’re someone else’s business. We’re told what we can and can’t do with them. And when we speak up and ask for better care, we’re often ignored or even treated like we’re overreacting.
What Can We Do About It?
The good news? We’re not helpless. Things are starting to change, and women are standing up for their health. Here’s how we can fight back:
- Demand Better Care: If your doctor doesn’t take your pain seriously, find a new one. Get second opinions, third opinions—whatever it takes. Your pain is real, and you deserve to be heard.
- Learn and Share: The more we know about our bodies, the harder it is for the system to ignore us. Share what you learn with others. Knowledge is power!
- Push for Change: Women’s health needs to be a bigger priority in research and policy. Support organisations that fight for better funding and research for women’s health issues.
- Speak Up: Don’t stay quiet. Share your story, call out unfair treatment, and keep pushing for change. The more voices we have, the harder it is to ignore us.
Advocate for Women’s Health and Universal Healthcare
Here’s something we can’t ignore: in many countries, healthcare is a basic right, but in others—like the U.S.—it’s not. Millions of women can’t afford to see a doctor, get a diagnosis, or access life-saving treatments. This is unacceptable. If we want real change, we have to start at the grassroots level because, let’s be honest, our elected officials have let us down.
- Contact Your Representatives: Whether it’s through emails, phone calls, or town hall meetings, let your elected officials know that women’s health matters. Demand better funding for research, better access to care, and policies that put women’s health first.
- Push for Universal Healthcare: In countries without universal healthcare, women are often hit the hardest. Advocate for a system where everyone—regardless of income—can get the care they need. Universal healthcare isn’t just a dream; it’s a necessity.
- Join the Movement: There are organisations and groups fighting for women’s health and universal healthcare. Join them, support them, and help spread the word. Change starts with us.
The Future is Female (and Healthy)
The days of suffering in silence are over. Women aren’t just “small men,” and our health shouldn’t be treated like it’s less important. It’s time for the medical world to catch up and start taking women’s health seriously.
If you’ve ever felt ignored, dismissed, or like no one believes you about your health, remember: you’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. The more we speak up, the more we demand better, and the louder we get, the closer we are to a world where women’s health finally gets the attention it deserves.
No more excuses. No more being ignored. It’s time to take control of our health, advocate for universal healthcare, and make sure the world listens. Together, we can create a future where every woman gets the care she needs—no exceptions.
Footnotes and Research References
- Medical Gaslighting and Gender Bias in Pain Treatment
- Studies have shown that women’s pain is often taken less seriously than men’s. A 2019 study published in Academic Emergency Medicine found that women experiencing acute abdominal pain waited longer to receive pain medication compared to men.
- Source: Chen, E. H., et al. (2008). “Gender Disparity in Analgesic Treatment of Emergency Department Patients with Acute Abdominal Pain.” Academic Emergency Medicine.
- Heart Attack Symptoms in Women
- Women often experience different heart attack symptoms than men, such as nausea, fatigue, or back pain, rather than the classic chest pain. This leads to misdiagnosis or delayed treatment.
- Source: American Heart Association. (2021). “Heart Attack Symptoms in Women.”
- Endometriosis Diagnosis Delays
- Research shows that endometriosis takes an average of 7 to 10 years to diagnose, with many women being dismissed or misdiagnosed during that time.
- Source: Nnoaham, K. E., et al. (2011). “Impact of Endometriosis on Quality of Life and Work Productivity: A Multicenter Study Across Ten Countries.” Fertility and Sterility.
- Funding Disparities in Medical Research
- Conditions like endometriosis receive far less funding compared to conditions that primarily affect men. For example, endometriosis research receives a fraction of the funding allocated to erectile dysfunction research.
- Source: As-Sanie, S., et al. (2019). “Research Priorities for Endometriosis: Recommendations from a Global Consortium of Investigators in Endometriosis.” Reproductive Sciences.
- Gender Bias in Clinical Trials
- Historically, women have been excluded from clinical trials, leading to a lack of understanding about how diseases and treatments affect women differently.
- Source: Liu, K. A., & Mager, N. A. (2016). “Women’s Involvement in Clinical Trials: Historical Perspective and Future Implications.” Pharmacy Practice.
- Universal Healthcare and Women’s Health Outcomes
- Countries with universal healthcare systems tend to have better health outcomes for women, including lower maternal mortality rates and better access to preventive care.
- Source: World Health Organization (WHO). (2020). “Universal Health Coverage and Gender Equality.”
- Advocacy for Women’s Health Policy
- Organisations like the American Medical Women’s Association (AMWA) and the Society for Women’s Health Research (SWHR) advocate for gender-inclusive research and policy changes to address disparities in women’s healthcare.
- Source: Society for Women’s Health Research. (2023). “Advancing Women’s Health Through Science, Policy, and Education.”
- U.S. Abortion Bans Post-Roe v. Wade:
- The overturning of Roe v. Wade in 2022 has led to near-total abortion bans in 14 states, severely restricting access to reproductive healthcare for millions of women. This has created a healthcare crisis, particularly for low-income and marginalised women who cannot afford to travel for care.
- Source: Guttmacher Institute. (2023). “State Bans on Abortion Throughout Pregnancy.”
- Poland’s Abortion Ban:
- In 2020, Poland’s Constitutional Tribunal ruled that abortion is unconstitutional in cases of fetal defects, effectively banning nearly all abortions in the country. This decision has forced women to seek unsafe alternatives or travel abroad for care, putting their health and lives at risk.
- Source: Human Rights Watch. (2020). “Poland’s Constitutional Tribunal Rolls Back Reproductive Rights.” Link
- Global Trends in Reproductive Rights:
- Around the world, right-leaning governments are adopting restrictive policies on abortion and contraception, mirroring the erosion of reproductive rights in the U.S. Countries like Hungary and parts of Latin America have implemented laws that limit access to essential reproductive healthcare.
- Source: Center for Reproductive Rights. (2023). “The World’s Abortion Laws.”
- Impact of Abortion Restrictions on Women’s Health:
- ACOG has consistently emphasised that restrictive abortion policies harm women’s health by limiting access to safe, timely care. They highlight that such restrictions disproportionately affect marginalised communities, increase maternal mortality rates, and force women to seek unsafe alternatives.
- Source: American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). (2022). “Abortion Policy and Women’s Health.”