How to trigger a man roll? When it rains it pours!
Look and you will find it – what is unsought will go undetected. – Sophocles
This one is easier than you think! You have so much power and control over this. It’s all about putting it out there and most importantly keeping your eyes open. There is so much opportunity out there for women to meet men. Men are everywhere, good eligible men are right under your nose.
Being on a man roll has more to do with YOU than anyone else.
Think about it for a second…
What do men want most?
What type of women do they ogle over?
And how can you be that woman?
After years of interviewing men at Blue Label Life I have found consistent answers. Men adore women who are feminine; they love bright happy-go-lucky women that aren’t afraid to smile. Men want a woman who isn’t defined by her work, who has a positive outlook and who provides him with a challenge.
A man wants a woman to laugh at his jokes whereas a woman wants a man that makes her laugh!
The key to being a man role and attracting men is to be appealing to men. The most important thing to do here is to make a man feel good about himself.
Make him feel really good about his accomplishments, achievements and truly enjoy his company and let him know it. Don’t be afraid to throw him a cute and light compliment about his sexy height, or biceps, cheeky smile or his sense of humour. If he does something for you, like buy your dinner, pick you up, or compliments you let him know you appreciate it. Use your body language it’s a powerful communication tool. Tilt your head to the side, smile and say “Why thank you…insert his name”. Calling him by his name will be music to his ears.
Think of the archetype you would be portraying is the old Cameron Diaz in that movie, “Something about Mary”. She was fun, playful and always had a smile on her face vs. the sternness and the drama of Kim Kardashian who is a diva. Men don’t mind Diva’s for a bit of fun but not for the long term.
Men love women who wear dresses and have their hair out and love, love, love glossy lips. If you want to be a on a man roll forget burning the bras, be as feminine as you can be!
Don’t be scary to him; make it easy for him to ask you out. Let him know you are interested with non-visual cues. This all comes down to open, warm and friendly body language, avoid being prickly at all costs.
Be non- judgmental; the last thing you should ask a man is where he lives, what he does and what car he drives. Men are across what you are doing. I have a client who owns a Lamborghini yet borrows his brothers Ute when he dates girls in the early days to ensure women like him for him and not his cash. Most men can smell a girl after money a mile away.
The key message to be on a true man roll is to put it out there, allow yourself to be open. You’ll enjoy your new sparkly energy with your positive self and be far more attractive than ever to men.
Keep yourself in goddess mode. A good exercise to keep you into goddess mode is to start a gratitude journal. Write down 3 things you are grateful for every day whether it be the bright sun, your friends, family or the amazing memories of your holidays…whatever is special for you!
When on a date, even if you don’t think he is the one, if you are unsure yet still enjoy his company, go back for seconds. You just never know what you might see second time round.
Most women initially don’t like the man they end up with. Only to find how incredible he is after a few dates and she sees the real him.
It was only last month I had a client who went on a date with a guy, he was a high flying Executive. She said,” Oh I didn’t like him when I first met him I thought he was terrible”….long story short he asked me out again and I thought why not…second time round she was smitten. Imagine if she had listened to her first instinct…
So get out there on that man roll. Bring out your fun positive fresh self, see the brighter things in life and be the woman men adore.
About the author
Samantha Jayne is a Relationship Expert, Dating Coach, Matchmaker, Author, Speaker and founder of Samantha Jayne.
Samantha is THE expert in rescuing professional singles looking for love. With Blue Label Life’s incredible 92% success rate in establishing long term relationships. She is also founder of Make Men Commit, a website for women to bring out their inner goddess within and snare the man of their dreams!
Samantha brings a fresh and honest approach to the world of dating advice, “When it comes to Love, be open, positive and expect the unexpected”.
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