< PreviousWhat helps you to stand out in a crowded relationship coaching market? Ilove the Make Men Commit Program because it is life changing and it empowers women to feel more confident with men, gives them a step by step formula on what you need to do to attract and keep the man of your choice AND get the ring on your finger! I’m living proof my formula to make a man commit works. My husband, a former commitment-phobe, was looking at rings within 2 months of meeting me. He was shocked, so were his friends and family. I had to slow him down! My clients all have very similar stories. My Make Men Commit program is a blue print for all women to boost their confidence, attract, meet and keep the man of their choice, and it's extremely affordable. What I love about it most is when my clients call me and act so surprised as to how quickly it works and how powerful it is. It’s very common for a client to say to me if she is dating she can’t keep up with the men or if she is in a relationship how quickly her man transforms and starts talking about commitment. When a client comes to me I can read her like a book and I show her what mistakes she has been making, identify her patterns and give her a step by step process to follow to have the relationship she wants with the man of her choice.I get real results fast because I look for the patterns and code. I commit to ensuring my clients achieve what they want, whether it’s confidence, their ideal relationship or getting that ring on their finger. coach with my heart and my advice is honest. It comes down to years of experience and applying psychology, NLP and science to my coaching. I work with strong, intelligent women and they are often so surprised that if they were to let go and be vulnerable that men LOVE it! A lot of women when they first meet me proudly say they are strong on the outside and soft in the centre and once a man gets to know them he will see her soft side. Only problem with this approach a lot of men don’t get to see her soft side because she is in her masculine energy. Men want feminine energy, they are looking for a woman who is soft on the inside and strong in the centre, the softness and vulnerability is irresistible to men and draws him in like a magnet. IWhat is one piece of surprising advice you have for those who are looking for their perfect partner?A lot of women feel so afraid of being vulnerable and think it will turn men off when it fact is it the key to attracting a strong man. That’s what he wants - a woman who makes him feel like a man. Oh that’s a tough one! I believe if you want something you must immerse yourself in learning everything you need to know and then put steps into place. If I had to narrow down to one book it would be a brilliant book that changed my life called, “The Strong Woman's Desire for a Strong Man, What falling in love teaches us about ourselves” by Maja Storch. In this book Maja talks about psychology, masculine and feminine energy and gives you a real understanding into why you have made the choices with men you have. I think when you understand things and then acknowledge them it can help you make smarter choices and achieve what you want. Keep on reading and investing in learning about men and relationships. It pays off - knowledge is power. Date like you’ve never been hurt. Date like you did when you first fell in love and make smart choices. Leave the bad boys and the broken men for the other women to fix, get it right with a man who treats you well. The biggest challenge for a woman in her forties is going to be her ‘beliefs’. You’ve probably heard all the stories, men like younger women, or there's a man drought, or I intimidate men. Enough of that! Focus purely on what you want and put the steps into place to make it happen. Just like if you wanted to change your career, you’d have a plan wouldn’t you? If you were to recommend a book to someone looking to pursue the relationship of their dreams, what would it be?What would your advice be to a woman in her forties looking to enter a serious relationship? Let go, be vulnerable and trust. Men have a primal instinct to protect and provide.So get a plan for dating, get social, register online (I know a lot of women don’t like online dating but the stats say 30% of marriages result from couples meeting online – you can’t argue the facts), join a gym, sailing club, golf club or whatever takes your fancy and get out of your shell. I love seeing the smiles on my clients' faces. It lights up my life. When my clients first see me, they have hit a wall, they are frustrated with dating the wrong men, they want a loving relationships and commitment. Sometimes they have been so hurt and lost confidence, some of them have even given up on a relationship but want to give it one last shot. They have a good career yet not a good relationship and it feels empty. I only work with women who genuinely are committed to getting real results in love. I commit to my clients 100% and in return I need commitment from them. My coaching achieves results fast because when both my client and I are fully focused on her ideal outcome nothing stands in the way.Women come to me in a pretty vulnerable place and I nurture this. Within a couple of sessions transformations happen and so does love! I just lovehelping women find happiness and showing them they can have it all.What do you love most about being a Relationship Expert?What lessons have you learned along the way?We asked...INNER GODDESSBy Michele Peppler UNLEASH YOURThey aren’t necessarily the most beautiful, well-dressed, smartest or well-known in the room, and yet somehow both women and men gravitate to her. This magnetic energy is the presence of a woman who has embodied her inner goddess. She has nothing to prove, not needing to compete with other women in the room, instead celebrating them as her fellow sisters. She isn’t concerned with how others may be judging her, how much cleavage she is showing or not showing for she knows that her true power lies not in her external appearance, or how she may be perceived, but in her deep understanding and acceptance of who she really is. ome women walk into a room and just instantly grab your attention.Smake-up she wears, the position she holds in society, nor the words that come out of her mouth, but in the inner light she radiates. When a woman finds and connects with this part of herself, forgives the disowned parts of her being, sheds the masks of protection she has worn and allows herself to be completely authentic in her self- expression of all she is as a woman, she simply becomes a beacon of light. This is the way of the goddess - she is not just in some of us, she is in all of us and you can start invoking her today starting with these quick tips to tune into your inner feminine power, turn on your goddess light and amplify your womanly radiance for success and fulfilment at work, in relationships and in life. he has learnt that the most powerful and beautiful thing about her is not the clothes orAND IT IS IN HER OWNERSHIP OF HER OWN GODDESS LIGHT, SHE GIVES PERMISSION FOR OTHERS TO SHINE THEIR OWN LIGHT ALSO.SBring more playfulness into life It’s easy to get bogged down in the masculine energy of ‘doing.’ To-do lists, productivity, problem solving, outcome driven agendas. Whilst all necessary parts of who we are, we are only meant to be in this state of ‘doing’ some of the time, not most of the time – which, let's face it, is not too often the case! For most women our natural state of being and where we are in our element, lies in invoking our joy. Usually this is through cultivating things like co-operation, collaboration, compassion, intuition, creativity, playfulness, movement, feeling and healing. When we spend too much time in ‘doing’ we become burnt out, overwhelmed and depleted of our life force energy. Conversely when a woman is empowered through alignment with her natural feminine qualities she becomes exactly what the universe intended her to be: sexy, sensual, articulate, intuitive, joyful, radiant and magnetically attractive. With all the responsibilities we have in life, it’s incredibly important to make time to let more playfulness in. If you’re feeling depressed, anxious or stressed ask yourself ‘When was the time I played? When was the last time I danced? Sang in the shower? Laughed out loud for no apparent reason? Rolled around on the ground with my kids? Had a food fight?’ Life’s way too important to be taken seriously all the time, let your inner child out once in a while.1You are born unique. That’s just how it is. You were not born to be anyone else and it is not possible to be anybody else. YOU WILL NEVER BE ANYONE ELSE. Of course you may recognise a quality in someone else you find admirable, or inspirational. But guesswhat? It is impossible to perceive something in another that is not already within you anyway. Comparing yourself to anyone else is ABSOLUTELY pointless, you are never, ever, ever going to be anyone but you, so why try? (Unless you can be a unicorn of course!) A lot of the reasons why we compare ourselves to others is because of mass media portraying an idea of what is acceptable, desirable, beautiful and important. There’s an industry built around trying to make you feel like you can’t measure up, making you feel inadequate for just being you, and it’s all B.S. Always be the best version of YOU. It REALLY is not about your looks, smarts, achievements, how well you can hold a conversation, or how good in bed you are. There is nothing sexier, more alluring, engaging or enchanting than a woman who is totally authentically comfortable in her own skin. It’s in the way she moves, holds herself, laughs, how she connects with people from a place of power and warmth at the same time. Be authentically YOU 2Always be yourself – unless you can be a unicorn, then always be a unicorn - Peter S. BeagleExpress yourself creatively Whether you think of yourself as creative or not, as women we are the master creators – we are specifically designed to bring new life into the world and breathe life into the birth of new things. Being creative does not mean you have to be an artist. Creativity is pure life force energy. Everything in life stems from creation, whether creating a meal, a garden, a spreadsheet or a work or art. Creativity engages right brain (intuitive) thinking, and is a form of expression of the soul. If you don’t have a creative outlet, find one fast! Having a creative outlet is imperative for getting out of you what, if left inside, can manifest as destructive behaviours. Without being able to express ourselves creatively we shut off this extremely important part of ourselves which is needed to balance the rational/logical right side. Many women who don’t express the creative parts of themselves may see this unexpressed energy channeled into negative areas such as drinking, shopping or socialising excessively. Create just for creation's sake, not to show anyone, just pour your soul into whatever it is you enjoy doing. Schedule 10 minutes per day or 1 hour a week and notice how good you start to feel. If you can’t think of what you’d like to do, think back to what you enjoyed as a child, or take something up you’ve always wanted to. 3Next >