Page 45 - SHW Magazine Issue 37

hen a man signs on to Unfortunately for the man, he will often take
a relationship — what her communication literally, and if he also
he believes will be takes the communication as a personal affront
long term, — there are and is wounded by the injustice or complete
certain rules that he stupidity of the argument or scene, he may
will be unaware of, retreat into himself — understandable it may be,

but if he makes himself aware of them, he resourceful it definitely is no”

will stand a much greater chance of staying in

the adventure for the long haul! This is when he must take the bull by the horns

and refuse to be put off. He needs to

This may not Come as a Surprise to most’ but demonstrate that she does not frighten him,
women generally communicate in very that he is man enough to take anything she can
tangential ways — they rarely come straight to throw’ and he can do so with love and

the point, but will deliver many non—verbal presence‘

hints as to what they expect or prefer in their

partner. However, men will mainly thrive

when the communications are straight-

forward and unambiguous. Here we have a

recipe for disaster! (%
Underlying the importance of the Trust I f
Account is the woman’s nature to test her . l =‘

man. When she seems to be most '35 ' '
unreasonable and is upset, yelling. pointing I ‘-

out his faults. storming off to another room. . ‘ V

this is all a test — a test to see if the man can } '

weather her storms. and underneath all of this 1'.’

seemingly radical behaviour is a cry for love V

and a question:

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“Can I trust you?” » it
By pushing him away, and sometimes being
quite nasty along with it, the woman is crying ' _
out to the man to stand up to her and not be put ,, _‘
off. i ;~ . . *
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